T6

Tian shi 6

Monkey King

What is your opinion about marriage? Tian shi asked Monkey king. He was pleasantly surprised to here this question from her. Knowing her well, for her working and thinking like a man, controlling many men and women in her team with her knowledge and sharp acumen Tian shi was to be classified into a modern day feminist.

She talked tough outside, was always on guard physically and mentally. Yet a soft romantic and sensuous girl inside she was, as well as a mother longing for a chubby child was sleeping inside her like a secret fire inside wet coal.

"Marriage is Maya. Its a dense forest with enchanting pools, trees with fruits and flowers. There are no clear roads inside, often people lost their directions inside the jungle of joy. Those who were outside it, longed to get inside and experience the nature's wonders. Those who entered it have at times lost their directions and wandered deep inside, often fell prey to the wild animals like tigers and lions, which are nothing but the emotions of life partners.

Union between an unknown man and woman is the best thing to happen in life. Parents come with us until school gate, brothers and sisters too come up to some distance. Until twenties, we are genderless and fearless. After twenties, every individual is an adult. An adult is separate from parents and siblings now. 

He or she are equipped to create a new world of their own now. Getting a partner who is loving, caring and pampering is the essense of marriage. Every lady is a queen in her husband's mind irrespective of how big or small his kingdom is.

He has to treat his queen like an angel. He needs to compliment her, appreciate her for her looks, talks, smiles, manners and even for the way she walks, runs and turns her head in style. She is the one who will wait for the evenings to spend time with her love. She will share the stories of the day in night, will share the water, food, sweat, bed and blood with him as if they are going to live for ever and ever. 

She will share his burdens, his stress, his social success and failures. She will carry his sons and daughters in her womb and create their offsprings to outlive them. She will remain silent when he is angry, the same way when she is feeling low, he should kiss her, cajole her, rub her feet and gently massage her neck and shoulders and make her relax.

She will teach him how to cook, how to clean the home and how to live like a hero. He will listen to her, verbal, nonverbal and facial gestures. Looking eye to eye, he should know what she feels is pain or pleasure. If its the pain he should be the soothing breeze and refreshing rains. If it is the pleasure, he should be the fuel to fire it full and quench her thirst of mind, body and soul.

At their best moments, they will be twinned together like loving snakes, happily eating each other. Yet they provide the required space and freedom to keep their individuality, self respect and identity. Marriage is simply complex, its not a destination its a journey. Its neither  heavenly nor hell all the time, its great happy lucky go mixed experience of spontaneous happenings. Its like sitting in a dining table, with blindfolded eyes. What is kept on your tongue is it green or meat, sweet or spicy you will never know. One of the partners may have tasted cucumbers with black pepper, salt and yogurt. Other might think cucumbers taste great with sugar and frozen for few hours. The exchange of ideas, hugs, kisses and cuisine make marriage a place of friendship, courtship and worship. Address each other with respect and love before you undress to make love is the unsaid rule of marriage.

T5

Tian Shi 5 - The Aunt

Monkey King 

Tian shi has a soft cute and feminine body build. But if bullied, she can bounce back, pounce on us and break our bones. Her smile is a beautiful curve, but beware when she is angry her smile could shine like morning sun.

Today my Tian shi is sad. She is very quiety mourning and mentally shattered to see her aunt is no more. Recently her aunt fell sick all of a sudden, became seriously ill and died. No one expected her aunt to vanish from this world in a jiffy. 

Tian shi has the home, cars and cash that is more than enough to feed hundred people and save at least ten people from severe health issues. But her money couldn't hold her aunt from leaving earth and reaching jade emperor's feet in heaven.

Tian shi spent a week of sleepless nights to care her aunt for a possible revival. But this time, it wasn't there in the destiny anymore. She feels like crying, but couldn't make it full. She feels very tired, hopeless and helpless too.

Monkey king is watching Tian shi from a far away place. He wants to go and hug her, console her. But he couldn't do it at this moment. Buddha has not yet given him the clearance to travel and meet Tian shi.

So monkey king, talked to the wind. He spoke a few words that could fly and reach his love. I overheard a bit if it, and put it in words for you.

Buddha's Story:

Once a mother lost her young and cute son, due to some tragic accident. Someone told her, meet Buddha he could get back your son's life. She did meet Buddha, prayed him and asked "Oh my Lord, you are the sage and saint. If you wish and pray, my son will wakeup from his death sleep and walk and play again". 

Buddha looked at her with all the love, compassion and sympathy in the world. He told, " Oh dear mother, it is just a simple task. Take this empty bowl, walk into this town and collect few glasses of water from those houses in which no one has ever died"

The mother felt very optimistic, that her son will be back. She knocked every door in the town asked for a glass of water with the precondition imposed by Buddha.

End of the day, the mother returned to Buddha with empty bowl, now that she realized and got enlightenment. Every house has seen death and she prostrated at Buddha's lotus feet and became his disciple at once.

Airing this story to Tian Shi, monkey king added few more lines to it. Your aunt has passed away, you are witnessed it with weeping eyes. When your aunt was young like you, her aunt passed away too, which your aunt witnessed helplessly, wept for a week or month or an year and then she continued to live her life, carrying the great memories of the ones who passed away.

Remember, people not only physically lived in this world for few decades, they also live in our minds for ever, until we die. Cry it out your heart on your aunt, don't hold it anymore. Go in full swing and finish it out until the last drop of tears in your eyes. After that, your mind will be clear like a crystal. Wear your sports shoes and run a few miles in the country side, or go back to your gym and work it out. Get tired physically and sleep like a child to meet your aunt in your dreams and share a few moon cakes and stinky tofu.

Tian shi reads this, and says Monkey king, thank you and enough is enough. I love my aunt and I have become my own aunt now, in mind body and soul. Peace!

T4

Tian Shi 4

By Monkey King

I met those two girls in the party. They were around 25 years old. They both had something in common, they just now broke up from thier relationship.

One girl told that it was her man who broke the relationship. I told her, no worries dear if one man walked out of your life, there will be hundred men waiting in the queue. Her face brightened in a moment.

The other girl looked like a fresh lotus flower plucked from the pond few minutes ago. Her name was fragrance. She broke up from her man; reason, the boys these days are greedy. Not satisfied with a single toy, always looking for more on the road. I told her, we men are like that what to do? While we give you 90%, allow us to give 10% to other women, they are cute too. She told me, I need that 10% too. 99.9% he should be mine, otherwise out the door is wide open!

There I had another story about a man. He handsome, smiling laughing flirting with every girl in the office, restaurants and anywhere. Getting close to him, found he is divorced. He is a father of a seven year old boy, whom he hadn't met last three years. He got married at 21, to a filthy rich girl who was way above his status. 

The girl had no work to do while his middle class mother did all the cooking cleaning at home. The only work she had was to spy her husband and smell him for beer and bar girls at the door step every evening. She used her new born child to blackmail him and it was her routine to fight with him and go back to her parents house with her baby. He need to visit her, beg and plead her to come back home until next round of fighting.

One day, she was gone for good divorcing him, while keeping the son in her custody. Law favours women, basically and more so it tilts towards the one who has more time and money to play the relationship breaking up games!

This poor fellow who has his son in his dreams only, keeps saving money for the son's education in future. I told him, no need buddy! Your wife is rich enough to educate her son in the Oxford university.

Looking at all these stories, my Tian shi is rather confused and defensive. For her even to pose in a white wedding gown as a model, needs a deep contemplation and careful consideration. She is right by the way, always she knows what is life.

T3

Tianshi 3

By Monkey King

Tianshi is the modern day reincarnation of Kuan Yin with one thousand arms. Her outfit is very much western whereas her mindset is eternely eastern. Her motherly compassion, empathy and love for fellow human beings radiates from her lotus eyes.

Her thousand arms are ever in action, an arm paints beautiful pictures of the world, another plays a set of drums for orchestra, her hands and legs move gracefully while dancing like a pro, she drives racing cars just for fun, when she waves her hand like a symphony conductor, her ships start sailing across the silk routes of China.

She embraces her man with her one thousand hands like a tender climber grape vine and offers her mind body soul and showers her abundant love and affection on him. Her sharp eyes seldom fails to note his slightest inclination to another woman beyond her devotion to him. Watch out guys, Tianshi is good at Taekwondo too!

She has developed strong muscles by constant workouts in gym, just it needs a pair of red gloves in her hands to knock him down for his misbehavior, but she won't rush to do it because she is a good woman, a forgiving forgetting fairy.

Let us see some general information here. Like the ying yang, day and night, male female attraction is the vital force behind procreation not only in human beings, but also in birds and animals.

Except humans, in all other spices the male has mane or any other beautification to attract and court his female partner. Also their union is seasonal and feasible for a specific period. In humans, its the reverse and its the female that stands distinctly beautiful and attractive. Their union is possible in all seasons and for all reasons sexual physical mental intellectual to platonic levels.

She had 3 million eggs as a fetus, reducing to 1 million at the time of her birth. The eggs are in hibernation until her puberty at ten. She still has 300,000 eggs in tact now and sheds an egg a month periodically, waiting to be fertilized for beautiful babies to come out. She is like a golden egg to break from inside for good. This egg can never be broken from outside, it hurts so much beware!

He is a child until 15 attaining his puberty in style. After that every day is his periods capable of releasing a whooping 500 million sperms in a single union. Looking at another girl is his birth defect, the life of a man was short in the past in jungles and wars, he needs to seed before he is gone for good. At the same time, it is no justification for him to cheat on his angel anytime.

Men women their relationship both sexual asexual has been a subject for legends and puranas across the religions and races. There was a Rama who was the faithful husband to single wife sita, took her to forest, lost her to Ravana, rescued her to put her chastity under test by asking her to walk through fire.

There was a Krishna who mesmerized girls with his loving looks and playing the musical flute, living with eachone of them simultaneously to keep his every girl in a blissful paradise.

Now coming to Tianshi's doubt, if it is possible a man who is not her biological father to be her father in faith and action? The answer is, yes it is possible after his male menopause. Until then, let him be your friend, your companion for exchanging love, unconditional and unassuming and expecting nothing in return.

T2

Tianshi 2

By Monkey King

Chinese in Malaysia are 24% of the total population and second largest ethnic group. They are active in business and trading. They don't proclaim or differentiate themselves when asked about their nationality, they would say 'Yeah. I'm a malaysian' 

When you ask them, 'Then why do you look different?' then they would talk about their ethnic origin which is main land China and great grandparents migration many generations before.

A Chinese Malaysian or Malaysian Chinese girl whatever you call, she grows in diversified cosmopolitan society in Malaysia. She has friends and neighbors who are local Malay Muslims, Chinese Buddhists like her and Indian Hindus. 

She speaks mandarin at home and Malaysian bahasa outside. Her English levels are way above her counterparts in main land China.

She is highly confused and at cross roads when it comes to her marriage. Whenever life gives you many choices, like ice cream coffee and hot chocolate, you find it difficult to choose one.

She can marry a Malay boy. He is honest, sun tanned romantic young man. He can love you and share a great relationship with you. Then what is the issue? Go ahead and enjoy, right?

Wait. There is a catch. He is a Muslim, so you need to convert to Islam and marry him. After that, forget your casual beers to chill out in hot tropical weather of Malaysia!

While Chinese girl Malay boy marriage could be a successful combination, she has to bear the cultural and religious differences with her husband's parents and other in-laws family. There have been many divorces reported on a later stage, by this time you have kids born and need to take care and you can't convert back from Islam.

What if she marries a fellow Chinese guy like her? Well the same religion, culture tradition all the same, but yet there are certain things to think before. He could belong to a traditional Chinese family, which is proud in celebrating their male power. 

"He is the eldest son in our family and leader of all". We wish to bring a kuan yin for our family. Is she willing to loose her identity and become Mrs So and so, to be a ever grinning trophy wife, a faceless identity-less creature, bearing his children, raising them and follow raising her grand children and die one day nameless and clueless?

Can she marry an Indian guy? Not a bad idea either. No issues regarding religion, need no conversion what so ever. But there could be some issues related to food. 

He could be a vegetarian, a spicy food eater and may pose problems this way. Also the Indian boys are known to be soft fickle minded, mama's boy. By the time he transfers his loyalty to you in full, you will be a mother of a handsome grown up young man.

Tianshi is Malaysian, She is Chinese too. She is also smart. Thats why she is a career woman. She works drives earns like a man and hardly she needs him for her economic survival.

But she would marry one day, to spend her evening sitting next to her husband and open her heart and talk a lot. They would look into each others eyes and discuss anything and everything under the sun. 

Their topic of discussion is not of any importance, it is their togetherness which is. By that time they would have a son and daughter, smiling, playing and running around the home, as proof of their loving relationship.

T1

Tianshi 1

By Monkey King

She was trembling with fear. Her tender rosy skin had become pale now. Neither a tall person nor heavy built she was. A petite cute girl in her early thirties. But no one can guess her age more than twenty two, given that smiling child like face she had.

Sharp eyes, sharp nose, sharp chin everything in her was sharp. A cute dimple in her cheek shined like a little diamond when she smiled and giggled. Her skin tone was the treasure her parents carried with them, when they moved from China to Malaysia for ever in 1930s.

Oh My God! She was looking cute when her eyes opened wide with her exclamation. Honey, I wish to share with you what happened yesterday night? I was bitten by a Snake!

Really? Then how come you are chatting with me now? Did you take any antidote? I was asking her in a bit confused voice. It wasn't real honey, it was a nightmare, haha.

Tianshi had every right to have a nightmare. Her past had many many stories in it. Today she works for the Shipping Industry as a Senior Manager, controlling two hundred staff and plenty of ships sailing from China to every country in the world wait for hand gesture.

But many a snakes have bitten her on her way to climb the corporate ladder. She has made sure every such snake has been decimated and neutralized completely.

Tianshi and me we shared many things in common. I belong to a tribe, which moved from Europe to India, to start speaking a Dravidian language. Then our ancestors moved five hundred years ago to another province, where we had to speak a language altogether different.

Whether its India or Malaysia, you need to be trilingual. Speak one at home, read write and speak another outside and be fluent in English for business at national and international level.

Tianshi- to be continued.

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